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The Journals

Hello, I see you’ve stumbled upon the musings hidden deep in the clandestine shadows…

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Okay, okay — I’m going to drop my weirdo act now.

I’m here to be super real and honest with you while incorporating my glorious sense of humour wherever I deem fit. This is really just a chat/ramble from me to you. I’m hoping I can save you the mistakes I made or at least help you feel less alone in yours.

Here you will find my journal-like philosophies or advice about love, heartbreak, healing, happiness, culture, and all the woes and wonders that exist within this human experience called life.

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Why “Compatibility” Is Overrated.

I don’t think compatibility — alone — is a true measure of whether two people should be together or not; I do, however, believe CONNECTION is the most powerful pillar of a lasting relationship/marriage.

Of course, there are some non-negotiables of compatibility. When you’re looking for a potential partner, you need to “break the fantasy” and ask the real questions so you don’t waste your time.

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