The Journals
Hello, I see you’ve stumbled upon the musings hidden deep in the clandestine shadows…
Okay, okay — I’m going to drop my weirdo act now.
I’m here to be super real and honest with you while incorporating my glorious sense of humour wherever I deem fit. This is really just a chat/ramble from me to you. I’m hoping I can save you the mistakes I made or at least help you feel less alone in yours.
Here you will find my journal-like philosophies or advice about love, heartbreak, healing, happiness, culture, and all the woes and wonders that exist within this human experience called life.
Why “Compatibility” Is Overrated.
I don’t think compatibility — alone — is a true measure of whether two people should be together or not; I do, however, believe CONNECTION is the most powerful pillar of a lasting relationship/marriage.
Of course, there are some non-negotiables of compatibility. When you’re looking for a potential partner, you need to “break the fantasy” and ask the real questions so you don’t waste your time.
Why I DON’T Hate Men.
Okay ladies, I need you to hear me out. I am someone who has every reason to wish for men to burn. I mean, my issues with men started when I was four years old (lol).
I even went through an “all men are trash” phase in college, but quickly realized that didn’t justify any of the pain I went/was going through. Shifting my mindset and broadening the picture helped me see things from a new perspective.
But I have to be brutally honest…