The Journals
Hello, I see you’ve stumbled upon the musings hidden deep in the clandestine shadows…
Okay, okay — I’m going to drop my weirdo act now.
I’m here to be super real and honest with you while incorporating my glorious sense of humour wherever I deem fit. This is really just a chat/ramble from me to you. I’m hoping I can save you the mistakes I made or at least help you feel less alone in yours.
Here you will find my journal-like philosophies or advice about love, heartbreak, healing, happiness, culture, and all the woes and wonders that exist within this human experience called life.
How To Stop Being “Too Nice.”
I’ve seen it firsthand: a nice person goes from being sweet, caring, and patient to cold, resentful, and bitter. This is a result of being repeatedly used or taken for granted by the wrong people.
Being “nice” isn’t the problem — it’s being OVERLY nice that’s the problem.
So, my fellow pathological people-pleasers: This is for you.
Why I DON’T Hate Men.
Okay ladies, I need you to hear me out. I am someone who has every reason to wish for men to burn. I mean, my issues with men started when I was four years old (lol).
I even went through an “all men are trash” phase in college, but quickly realized that didn’t justify any of the pain I went/was going through. Shifting my mindset and broadening the picture helped me see things from a new perspective.
But I have to be brutally honest…
How To Get the Ultimate REVENGE.
Okay, so it seems everyone and their mom know about the ongoing beef between Megan Thee Stallion and Nicki Minaj. But wait — how on EARTH did Ben Shapiro get in the rap god diss-track mix???? Lol.
We can pretend we aim to be the bigger person and “kill ‘em with kindness,” but we all secretly want to know the tip-top secrets of getting real revenge.
Well, I’m gonna give ‘em to you.